Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Say Something

Why is it so difficult to let people know that you appreciate them and care for them? Why is it that we, as people, only wait for days that we are “allowed” to let people know how we feel? Christmas, birthdays, anniversaries, etc. If someone means so much to you why don’t you only let then know as often as you can? Why can’t people just pick the phone on a random day and say, “Hey, I just called to say that I really appreciate having you in my life”? LOL! How would you react if someone called you and said that to you? You’d probably think something was wrong or there is some ulterior motive. Well that is sad, isn’t it? Why has society made us numb to receiving and giving praise? Why does it feel weird to say some of these things? Why is it easier to say something bad about someone and so hard to say something good? How easy is it to send a text, a card, flowers or just a simple phone call? It’s VERY EASY! Guys I suggest that you holla at someone and just let them know you care! Life is too short and someone who is here today may not be here tomorrow! Wouldn’t it be a great feeling knowing that people you care about actually know that you care and that you are there for them?

Say something!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

ndu u on a roll with the posts lol! ya ya ya ya u like took the words right out my mouth i was actually thinkin about that the other day too, i have to agree with everything that you said

Fiona said...

So true, Ndu.

I have a thought to add to the mix - finding out what your loved-ones' love language(s) is/are and express love to them in a way they understand.

If you have no idea what I'm talking about check out "The Five Love Languages", I think it's by Gary Chapman.

Ndumiso M said...

Hmmm... Love languages! Didn't think about that! Coming thru! Make what you do relevant to them! Thanks Fi!